somatic therapy and consultation for
Outsiders, Change Makers, and Healers
in Minnesota and Massachusetts
About Me
I help people align their lives with their hearts when oppressive forces tell them to stay put. Trust is central to our work, since your relationship with me will be one of the most critical factors in your healing. I will meet you with an open heart, and a lot of realness.
Together, we can shift your relationships with the problems in your life and reclaim what is most precious to you.
I'll be honest, I don't always get it right. I take my power as a professional very seriously, and am always looking for ways to limit its influence. I emphasize consent and will often ask what you most want to feel or connect to in our session. I also offer moments to pause, give feedback, or change direction during our time.
I believe that caring for each other with open hearts will change the world. That’s why I hope you will take the first step toward healing, and contact me to set up a consultation today.
“You are beautiful just as you are and your contributions to this world are both necessary and unique. If you are ever feeling alone or unloved, please remember this.”
—Janet Bystrom
My Values
My practice was born out of a desire to provide affirming, open-hearted, inclusive care to the outsiders of the world. I study with a therapist who, when asked if something is normal, says “well does it bother you?” There are far too many things in this world shaped by white supremacy and all its attendant oppressions. In the face of this, I strive to stand against oppression in all its forms, and to fight for racial, body and trans liberation.
Lineage & Influences
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Neuroaffective Relational Model (NARM)
NARM is my central practice foundation, guiding my work to reconnect mind and body.
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Polyvagal Theory
Stephen Porges and Deb Dana’s theory of the nervous system informs my understanding of trauma and the body.
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Narrative Therapy
Narrative was my first therapy home, grounding my work in postmodern, queer and feminist theories.
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Janet Bystrom, LICSW
Janet Bystrom has been my teacher, mentor and friend throughout my therapy career. My work is immeasurably stronger thanks to her support, wisdom and ethics.
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Fez Aswat
Fez Aswat is a wise and funny meditation and yoga teacher who supports my ability to be with what is, to laugh, and to share meditation and mindfulness skills with clients.
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Buddishness
I am a lifelong meditation practitioner with varying degrees of dedication. An attention to the lineage of many therapy practices in Buddhist philosophy underpins my work.
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The Collaborative
What we water is what grows. Healing is a spiral, not a line. Every behavior has meaning, every behavior reflects a need. I carry a long list of learnings and influences from CCSC at the Home for Little Wanderers in my heart each time I sit down to work with someone. My clients, especially, challenged and supported my growth, as I hope I did theirs.
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Transformative Justice
Circle practices and their impact on community, accountability, and healing processes have been life changing for me. The invitation to listen deeply, to step outside of your own experience, and to bear witness with your whole heart is unlike anything else I’ve experienced.
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Irene Ochoa
My first therapy teacher, long before I was a therapist. Irene didn’t teach in words, she taught with an open door. She taught with patience, quiet, and a loving heart. She taught with homemade potato flautas. She taught with her own story and her endless capacity to show up for those in vulnerable situations. Irene is the person who taught me to truly listen.
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Sonita Sarker
If Irene taught me to listen, Sonita taught me to think, to question, to look at context and what is beneath. Sonita dismantled femininity in a bright pink power suit and three inch stilettos. Getting work back from her was an experience both terrifying and expansive, one’s work barely visible in a sea of red ink. Never telling us what to think, but how to think. I use my degree (in gender studies) that many thought was useless every single day.
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Colleen Schmitt
Colleen used her experience as a survivor of domestic violence to vision a network of safety for domestic and sexual assault survivors around the country. She built a program around the message one call to safety. She offered me both guidance and freedom as we identified and dismantled barriers to safety and resources for folks who fell through the cracks of domestic and sexual violence services.
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Emily Cheney Neville
My grandmother was formidable and deeply loving. A prolific letter writer, her advice guided me through my childhood and teens. She used her resources to support those who needed it, never patronizing or dominating, just holding a door open for folks to step through, doing what she could, which was a lot. She was a fierce friend and advocate, and a simple and incredible baker. I make her liebkuchen every winter.